Most of us are. We are wowed by a persons talent and gush over their ability to speak well because we like to be entertained. Just look at how we vote in, or out, our presidents.

The ability to speak is a short cut to distinction. It puts a person in the limelight; raises them head and shoulders over the rest.

In How to Win Friends and Influence people, Dale Carnegie said, “the person who has this ability is usually given credit for other abilities out of all proportion to what he or she actually posses (italics are mine). It will make the listener and the speaker overlook other areas that the speaker may fall very far short on.”

The ability to wow and draw a big crowd is not the same as building a healthy church family.

We need the ability to draw a crowd, there needs to be something that attracts people initially but it’s not what keeps them or builds something lasting. After all, the crowd is fickle and will follow someone or something better as soon as it comes along. We see this is Jesus’ life. One day there were crowds amazed at his teaching, the same crowd just a little while later were shouting crucify! That is fickle.

I am impressed by a person of great character and integrity. I am impressed by a person with a track record of trust, reliability and good lasting fruit. This person hasn’t shortcut their way to distinction or success. I am impressed by a person who carries a good measure of heavenly authority-that’s God’s mark of distinction and there is definitely no faking it. I am impressed with the person who treats others with dignity and respect, highly valuing all people. This person, I will listen to.