Red-faced guilt

Romey Ritter —  November 17, 2016

As a Christian, we don’t walk out of our house in the morning looking to sin. We are aware of much of the big obvious sin and generally want to avoid it, and God gives us the help we need to avoid it.

I wonder though, if we even recognize some things as sin?

  • Intentionally a Christian will go find someone to share some juicy gossip with.
  • Intentionally a Christian can’t wait to say, let me tell you about so and so… Or, did you hear about…?
  • Intentionally a Christian may look to find fault and criticize a brother, a sister, a leader, or a church.
  • Intentionally a Christian will make a mocking joke, laughing at someone, but there is a definite disrespect in the mocking joke.
  • Intentionally a Christian will ruin the reputation of another.

Are we so accustomed to these conversations in church that they don’t seem like sin? Are criticism and gossip so much apart of normal everyday conversation that we are inoculated to their deathly stench? Do we think tearing down another person is something God gives His heavenly nod of approval to?

Isaiah was a man of God. God’s servant. God’s leader. Used by God mightily. He loved God. His life of loving obedience reflected His faith in God. And yet in a vision when Isaiah came face to face with God, he suddenly become blindingly aware of his unclean lips. Isaiah wasn’t thinking about His good life of serving God. He wasn’t thinking, Yep, I’ve earned a pat on the back from God! When Isaiah came face to face with God, he was made blindingly aware of his unclean words. All of his faithful service to God didn’t matter. Isaiah’s loose words had become his undoing and he cried out…

“Woe to me!…I am ruined! For I am a man of unclean lips, and I live among a people of unclean lips, and my eyes have seen the King, the LORD Almighty.” Isaiah 6:5 NIV. In the Message version, it says Doom…I’m as good as dead. Every word I’ve spoken has been tainted…corrupted!

What are unclean, tainted, and corrupt words? Criticisms, judgements, gossip, backstabbing, fault-finding, cynicism, mocking. Unclean words are words spoken out of resentment, selfish ambition, vain conceit, or jealousy. They are self-righteous words, and words spoken out of pain and unforgiveness. They are words of blame.

If our words are anything but loving, encouraging and covering, they are words set on fire by hell, James 3:6. They come from a place in our heart where we have allowed negativity, resentment, bitterness, or jealousy to grow up and rule. No matter how we try and justify it, it’s a lack of love.

Our words are the overflow of our heart, Matthew 12:34. Our words always reveal what’s in our heart. Every thought, attitude, and intent will find it’s way onto our lips.

Negative words have a destructive force, words can kill, Jeremiah 9:8. Words separate close friends, ending relationships, Proverbs 16:28 &17:9. Words can divide churches, families, and peoples loyalties.

If we allow unclean, tainted, and corrupt words to come from our mouth, we set ourselves up as an adversary to people. Satan is the Adversary. If we bring accusation against people, ripping and tearing them to shreds, we literally manifest Satan and his plans to ruin the lives of God’s people. Truth!!

If we gossip, criticize, entertain negative thoughts and conversations, we are giving our mouths over to Satan to use against people, God’s people. It’s so damaging to the church. If we gossip, criticize, etc, we are responsible for damaging God’s precious people.

With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse human beings, who have been made in God’s likeness. Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this should not be, James 3:10. With our tongues we murder our brother and sister, 1John 3:15.

Perhaps that’s why Isaiah stood red-faced and guilty. Upon coming into the Presence of Almighty God, he suddenly understood that not even the slightest negative word can be spoken out in an uncaring or unloving manner. Anything that is against love is sin. 

Just when Isaiah saw God and realized his sin, God forgave him fully, Isaiah 6:6-7. We too get forgiveness. Jesus has taken care of it all. If we get honest with God, confess our sin, we immediately receive his forgiveness. He is faithful and just. If we confess our sins, we can rely on Him to forgive us everything, 1John 1:9.

God hears everything we say and knows everything in our heart. What you have said in the dark will be heard in the daylight, and what you have whispered in the ear in the inner rooms will be proclaimed from the roofs, Luke 12:3. We can’t surprise or shock God by our confession, He knows everything. If we get honest, own up, and repent, we get His loving forgiveness.

Repentance is realizing something is sinful and having true Godly sorrow for the sin. A change in our behavior will be the result of our repentance; loving, kind, and grace-filled words will be the fruit of our repentance.

An amazing thing happens when we repent, the full weight of the guilt and any associated fears or anxieties are immediately lifted off us.

Isaiah’s example shows, the closer we draw to God, the more we become aware of the many ways we can offend Him through sin. His extreme beauty and absolute holiness draw us closer and cause us to rely on Jesus more, every day–and we realize our life-long debt is to walk in love with people.

As we become more aware of the many ways we can offend God through sin, we will have an ever DECREASING desire to find fault in other people, and we will walk in ever-increasing grace and love for them instead.

God wants nothing short of our complete dependence on the life of Jesus for forgiveness of our sins and for Jesus’ example of how to love others. Whoever says he abides in Him (Jesus) ought [as a personal debt] to walk and conduct himself in the same way in which He walked and conducted Himself, 1John 2:6.

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You Have a Compass

As a kid I was fascinated with maps. This will date me, but this was before GPS and turn-by-turn directions! I would sit for hours studying interesting places and how to get from one place to another and plan hikes. But when you begin your journey, you realize that although the map stays the same, what’s in front of you is constantly changing and doesn’t look exactly like the map. New trails, washed out trails, changing weather conditions, and though I know I am supposed to go North, how do I know where North is??

Enter the humble compass.

A compass does 1 thing — it keeps pointing North. It is my reference for where I am currently headed. The map tells me where I am and where I need to go. The compass tells me in which direction to take the next step. Obstacles along the way require frequent side steps which then require constant compass checks for course corrections. Without them, I can easily end up headed in the opposite direction without me realizing it!

The Bible, God’s Word, is our spiritual map. It lays a path before us in line with God’s redemptive plan for mankind.

The Holy Spirit is our spiritual compass. He was given to us by the Father to guide and empower us, to bring the words of our map, the Bible, to life.

But when He, the Spirit of truth, comes, He will guide you into all the truth. He will not speak on his own; He will speak only what He hears, and He will tell you what is yet to come. John 16:13

Without a compass, your journey becomes a LOT more difficult. A map was always designed to be guided by a compass. The Word of God was always meant to be guided by the Holy Spirit.

As a kid, when I learned there was such a thing as a compass it changed my perspective. When I learned how to use a compass, suddenly the journey was a lot easier. I started taking on more difficult hikes. Terrain and distance didn’t matter, I knew where I was going and I knew how to get there. If I got lost, the compass always put me back on the right path.

When I discovered the Holy Spirit, I couldn’t believe I had ever tried to live the Christian life without Him. Being continually filled with the Spirit has been the most empowering thing in my life. He’s a constant voice giving direction to me when other resources are silent. If I get off track, He gently nudges me back in line. So if God seems silent in your life, I encourage you to get your compass, be filled with the Holy Spirit and listen to Him as he guides you on your journey. Your life will never be the same.

A Lesson from AW Tozer

Romey Ritter —  October 14, 2016

Has it ever occurred to you that one hundred pianos all tuned to the same fork are automatically tuned to each other? They are of one accord by being tuned, not to each other, but to another standard to which each one must individually bow (Jesus Christ). So one hundred worshippers meeting together, each one looking away to Christ, are in heart nearer to each other than they could possibly be were they to become “unity” conscious and turn their eyes away from God to strive for closer fellowship (it’s false human loyalty). ~A.W. Tozer

Eloquently stated Mr. Tozer!

Tozer is, of course, speaking about unity and where true unity comes from. If our eyes are diverted from Jesus and look to man, the teachings and traditions of men, we end up tuned to each other. This is a warped version of unity–a religion that is social.

religion that is social looks good. It entertains. It may grant success. Yet, it is powerless. But because it’s social, we like it, or think we are supposed to like it, everyone else seems to…

Socialization is conformity. We conform to whoever or whatever is around us. We give up our convictions of Truth, and even ignore the Holy Spirit, to follow a crowd. It’s hard to turn your back on a crowd; all those voices; sometimes respected voices. 

Why did Paul say to the church, do not conform to the pattern of this world, Romans 12:2? He was saying, do not be socialized… not to the world, not to a crowd, not to a religious form, not to man’s traditions. These are all powerless and we begin to look like, sound like, taste like, feel like, love-or-hate like, whoever or whatever we socialize to. If it’s man, our faith will be powerless.

Jesus is the standard. By continually fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of our faith, Hebrews 12:2, we are transformed by the renewing of our mind, Romans 12:2. As we are being transformed into His image, 2Corinthians 3:18, we grow more like Him in nature and character. It is in this place that our hearts will be nearer to and filled with true love for each other. This is the unity Tozer is speaking of.

There are moments in our lives when God seems silent. There can be several reasons for this but sometimes, He just simply chooses to be. As we discussed in a previous blog When God is Silent, this may be because God wants us to use the tools He has already given us to discern His will and make wise decisions. Be encouraged that God’s silence does not mean his absence. He is the omnipresent God whose Spirit dwells in every believer (2 Timothy 1:14, Romans 8:9, 1 Corinthians 6:19). He will never leave you and never forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:8). Whether you hear Him or not, He IS there. But what do we do when we can’t hear Him?

A primary way God speaks to us today is through His Word, the Bible. Many question how a book written so long ago could be relevant in today’s digital age. Haven’t we outgrown that stuff? Isn’t the bible just a bunch of rules and regulations for people who lived in the Dark Ages? Isn’t it just a book written by man to keep the world from chaos? Good questions.

The bible is a book like no other. More than just the 10 commandments, the Bible is the most historically accurate book ever written, full of beautiful poetry and stories that even Hollywood couldn’t make up, and contains a surprising breadth of topics. There is wisdom for raising kids, healthy marriages, managing finances, and finding a life partner but it is so much more. That’s because the Bible does not just contain the words of God. It is the Word of God. The Word of God was in the beginning and is God.  The Word, embodied in Jesus Christ, made His dwelling with us. He brought life that was light to all mankind (John 1:1-3). The pages of the Bible we have today reveal Jesus as the author of life, the light of the world, and God’s great plan of redemption for all mankind. Because of this, the Bible is not just an instructional manual on good moral behavior. It is the Word of God that requires something more than knowledge — it requires relationship.

Hebrews 4:12 tells us that the Word of God is alive and active. Living things require relationship. To fully understand the Bible you need to develop a relationship with the Word. This begins by giving your heart to Jesus (the Word made flesh), being filled with the Holy Spirit, then studying to present yourself to God approved, a workman [tested by trial] who has no reason to be ashamed, accurately handling and skillfully teaching the word of truth (2 Timothy 2:15 AMP). When you develop a relationship with the Word through spirit-filled study and application, you begin to discover the power it contains. Words on a page, no matter how well crafted, lack the power to change a person. Only a relationship can do that, and relationships require action.

A preacher named Charles Stanley used to teach was that if you haven’t heard from God in a while, go back and do the last thing He told you to do that you didn’t do. Perhaps God is silent because He is waiting for us to act on what we already know. As James 1:22 says, Do not merely listen to the Word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what is says. If you want to hear God through His Word, action is required.

Psalm 119:11 says, I have hidden your word in my heart that I might not sin against you. The key to hearing God from the Bible is to apply what you’ve read. When you do, the Word gets hidden in your heart; ready for whatever circumstance life throws at you.

Psalm 119:105 also says, Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path. We live in a world that can get really dark. God’s Word is our light to get us through the darkness. LIGHT IT UP! 

So if you feel God has been silent on an answer you need, the first place to look is the Bible. If you don’t know where to start, just Google “bible verse ____” and include the topic you need to know about. Don’t just read what the links say. Look the verses up in your bible and read them. Read the whole chapter to get the context. Read several passages on the same topic to get an overall view from God’s perspective. You’ll soon see the answer you’re looking for has been in the Bible all along waiting for you to discover it.

Light it up!

Next up: When God is Silent: Use Your Compass



When God is Silent

Clayton Ritter —  October 4, 2016

God speaks to us. Sometimes clearly, sometimes subtly but He has a voice and, no, it doesn’t sound like Morgan Freeman. That would be cool though, right? There have been moments in my life when I have heard God so clearly that it drowned out every other voice and even the often most powerful voice — my own. My voice in my head is often the most powerful because what I tell myself can have the biggest impact on the fruit my life produces. We’ll talk about that more in another blog.

God can speak to you in several different ways. A voice from a burning bush, the mouth of a donkey, a voice from the clouds, God is one creative communicator! Regardless of the method, as a follower of Jesus, when you know you’ve heard from God and He has given you a commission you really only have two choices — obedience or disobedience. For perspective on the latter option read the book of Jonah. Jonah eventually got it right but, as I frequently remind my young sons, delayed obedience is disobedience.

God is infinitely patient with us but there are moments when God wants us to move without hesitation. Luke 9:59-62 tells of a time when Jesus commissioned two people to follow Him. Though the call was clear, they both told Jesus they first had other important matters that needed their attention. Jesus essentially told them to stop looking back and move forward with what He was telling them to do now. Leave behind whatever you have and do exactly what He has told you to do. As He said, the dead (the things you leave behind) will bury their own, Luke 9:60.

The lesson is this: when you clearly hear the voice of God the time to act is NOW.

But what if God is silent in other areas? What if, although God has told you what He wants you to do, He has been silent on how to do it? What if you really need to hear from God on a particular issue but it seems as though He’s not answering your texts, never returns email, hasn’t commented on your Facebook post, the gates of heaven have closed, and your prayers are bouncing off the ceiling? Trust me, we’ve all been there. Left to our own devices we can think either God isn’t listening or we’ve done something wrong.

There are several instances from Scripture why our prayers can be hindered. A husband who who does not respect or honor his wife will struggle to hear God (1 Peter 3:7). Spiritual opposition (Daniel 10:12-14) can cause a delay in receiving your answer. These are just a few. But sometimes God chooses not to speak to us. Only He really knows why but I often suspect it is the same reason I don’t always answer every question my kids ask me. I want them to figure it out for themselves. I want them to realize they had the answer all along, they just needed to use the resources and wisdom I had already given them. In the next few posts, I want to show you a few of the valuable resources God has given us to help us obey Him and proclaim the Kingdom of God to our generation.

I want to show you what to do when God is silent.

Coming up: When God is Silent: Light it Up!